Last Week was my Fathers’ 75th birthday, a milestone to say the least. To this day I am still afraid of him, as a kid, he not only instilled discipline in me but respect for others. I have to admit I grew up well grounded and responsible never really causing our family any serious issue.

Unfortunately the more we age the more difficult things become. As a young man, when the testosterone levels are heightened between the ages of 19-29, there comes a sense of invincibility from within, a strength that makes you feel like Superman, able to take a few bullets and keep on trucking, feeling no pain. Between the ages of 30-50, a sense of calm overcomes a man, as he looks to settle down, start a family, I call it the ‘George Costanza test’, to see if your fish can swim. Have a family; pass on the knowledge to the next generation.

A good friends Father once said to me, “Phil, before the age of 50, you can eat whatever you desire but after, only fibre, fibre, fibre!” Max died of Pancreatic cancer soon after his wise words, in his sixties.

My dad, being a plumber and Union man for over 50 years, retired at the age of 60. Soon after, had a mini stroke, partially blinding him but because we live in an era of new medicine and technology, life continues.

Still strong as an Ox and regretting leaving his trade prematurely, papa Joe entered his Seventies, now having to replace his heart-valve and knee with carpal tunnel in both wrists. He has turned into a blend of Archie Bunker and Fred Sanford, always annoyed and thinking his love in the sky is ready to take him to the Promised Land. 

To this day he is still wild and crazy the life of a party and a genius in my eyes.  His ability to read blueprints and breakdown a job was second to none. Rather than following in his footsteps, he convinced me to earn my living with the pen, which he claimed was mightier than the sword. Truly a caring Father, who continues to sacrifice his life for his family and friends unconditionally.

Sincerely-Philip Magnoli, my friends call me Don Filippo-The FX Specialist- www.donfilippo.ca